Divorce Public Records

Usman asked:


i married out of states sponser my wife throw immigration she came here but we did’t registerd the marriage in city council .we had divorced placed in same country where we were married.
is there gonna be any problem if i married here again if i have proof of divorce overseas?

Kruc asked:


It is now 8/2009. Back on 12/2005 My wife signed my name on a $70,000 line of credit against our home and then took out 4 credit cards in my name and proceeded to max them out for $20,000. I didn’t find out until 2007 when my credit card declined and I asked her why. We had a joint acct and she was suppose to be the one to pay the bills. We have been married for 10 yrs now and have two children ages 7 10. When she told (in an email) lol.. that she did this I flipped out! She had done this two separate times before over 5 yrs where she ran up credit cards for $17k and $20k but my dad helped us out. I know I sound like a stupid *** but I trusted her because she is an awesome mother and she loves her family and her family is really nice and grounded. I know after the second time I should have gotten my own bank acct and should have kept track of the money but I trusted her.

Three days after I found out she defrauded me, I got laid off and my father was in a hospice on his death bed waiting to die so we had to ask her parents for money to get us through. They did help us for 6-8 months and her aunt and uncle gave me a good full time job working for them. I was happy just to save the house and thought we could save our marriage. She filed for bankruptcy and I tried to pay the bills but 4 months later I too had to file bankruptcy for all her spending. To be honest, we don’t have really nice stuff in our house. Our first mortgage is $214,000 and the line of credit is down to $68,000 now but since the housing market went bust we prob will only get like $250,000 for our house.

My atty( and I spoke to 2 other attys) says that even though she forged my name and blew all the money without me doing a thing she can get away with it!! We are in the discovery process of the divorce and once we see all of her financial records and where the money went to, we can hopefully figure out some things. If she paid household bills then my atty says there is nothing I can do. I live in Connecticut. Isn’t that unreal to you reading this? I tried to do the right thing by staying together and keeping the kids in a house an not in a crappy appt but I guess I was wrong. I should have left once I found out about the forgery for $70k. Again … I lost my job and my dad was dying so I all I wanted to do was maintain. Isn’t this sad? Hopefully I can find out that she spent the money on her student loans or just blew it to cash. She did have a PO Box for a while and maybe another acct in her name. If not I will just have to take her to court and let a Judge scold her because that’s prob all that will happen. Some friends say to go after her as hard as I can and others worry about the kids.

I have to wait 30 more days for the discovery and then will have a better idea of my situation.

In her defense(I know I am a sucker) she is an excellent mother ( the worst in terms of financial) but she plays and supports them emotionally in ways I can’t) and she did get a 2nd job delivering papers for a yr after the debacle. But I think that in time, If I do nothing and just walk away because of the children, I will regret it for the rest of my life. I never will say I was a great father or Great husband, far from it, but she single handedly bankrupted myself, herself and the children and now acts like she did nothing wrong and all the money issues are a thing of the past..

Your comments pls ..
Yes I want a divorce as well so I can stop living this lie and stop staying together just for the children. I could honestly just not forgive her after the last time and we have gone downhill since then.
Since she kept it all hidden from me, I had no idea that she just blew all the money until she told me ! We dont have nice stuff and we both work full time.
I disagree with what ouragon posted saying I am lazy. Naive and trusting yes. I actually told her after the first time I wanted to take over the bills but she declined. I should have been more forceful but thats my mistake.

Charlie L asked:


So, a friend is going through a divorce and has found porn on her computer, obviously there by her husband. He’s a principal of an elementary school. How can she make a record, or what should she do, to have this as backup in the divorce? He has already said that he will blame everything on her, and has threatened her with blackmail if she says anything. Your help is appreciated….

citizen high asked:


I don’t know the record of the world fastest divorce .

CHRISTY asked:


my dad isnt dead. but i want to know how to get ahold of his mental health records.
my parents are divorced and i want to see if he is really, bipolar, scitofrinic . and plus it would be handy in court.
and he wont sign a release form . what can i do??

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ilyakharitonov1987 asked:


So i’m in the air force. My wife decided she also wanted to join the air force. However i got deployed and now she leaves for basic in two weeks. Out of nowhere she started saying that her feelings for me have changed and she wants a divorce. It all started happening after she kissed a girl and i got mad. Then she had my friend sleep in my bed with her (i don’t know if anything happened there or not), and then she started lying to me about everything. So i got mad, and shut off her cell phone which is in my name and i pay for. Then i told her i’m going to take the cars away (both in my name, i pay for them because she doesn’t have a job). She was super mad at me and that’s when she started saying that everything is my fault and i’m trying to cut her out of everything and now she wants a divorce for sure. She came back from her vacation yesterday and sent me an email. Here they are:

hey, i just wanted to let you know that i got back okay yesterday. the dogs didnt really recognize me at first. it might’ve been also cause i cut my hair. but they’re doing good. they were well taken care of. blue is bigger, weight wise, he looks good and sable looks good too. im gonna try to close the wamu account today (our joint bank account but my paycheck don’t go there) so we dont have to worry about it. i think that’s all, oh, and did you know that mike ( my friend, i told him he could use the car (my car)) took my car to some place like 2 or 3 hours away from here to take it camping when he has his own vehicles? i found a little grill in the trunck when i was putting my luggage in there yesterday, im not too happy about it. he put quite a bit of miles on it. but oh well i guess. but yea, im here now in one piece.

My reply was: So do you still want to give the dogs away and do you still want a divorce?

Her reply:

im gonna try to find someone who wants both dogs. i dont think its right to keep the dogs as a bourdon to jessie( our roommate) he is thinking about moving after his lease is up in novembre. so, i’ll pack your stuff up before i leave, but you are probably gonna have to find someone to pick it up and store it. i’ll just pack what is mine (clothes, pix of my fam, computer, and dvd player) umm…i had a meeting today with my recuiter and his boss and they said that it would be best to hold of the divorce process untill i get out of basic because it would hurt me if i have a civil lawsuit opened on my records. i hope that answers your question. thanks for putting that money there, but i really dont need it. but i guess if something comes up, i’ll use it. i really dont care anymore about the usaa account. im really wasnt using it to begin with i guess. but yea, that’ll be one of the things we take care of when you get back. im going to start organizing all the stuff. and when i figure out where to keep the important documents, i’ll let you know where they are.

Do you guys think she’ll regret her decisions (possibly in basic training wwhen she’s all stressed) and come back to me? Or is this kind of thing something that a marriage can’t recover from? What do you guys think?

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Trying to do the right thing asked:


My husband is verbally abusive, and after months of trying to get up the courage to leave him, he has made the first step by leaving me! He left Saturday and said he was going to file for divorce on Tuesday. He has blocked all cell phone communication and gone into hiding. In the meantime, I have no idea what’s going on with the divorce and I am sick with tension. I don’t know if he’ll come home or what. I have little money, so I’m waiting to see what he’ll do and I’m waiting to be served with divorce papers, but nothing’s happening!
I searched my county’s courthouse online and they have no records of either of us. Say he did file Tuesday, how soon will I be served or find out? If he filed through his attorney, will there be a delay? I don’t want to spend the money to file if he already did. Are people usually served right away or are there paperwork delays? What will be my timeline from here on? We were married 11 months with no kids.

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Anonymoussss asked:


In a friend’s divorce record online, through the county court, it states FCO Final Court Dismissal – Failed to Appear. He is very much for the divorce, however, his ex is the plaintiff, and was the one scheduled to appear. When a divorce case is dismissed, does that mean the parties are no longer married? Also, on the site, it says Case Disposed 8/12/08. Please advise. Thanks!

kooties_2000 asked:


CLEARWATER, Fla. (AP) Linda Hogan has filed for divorce from her wrestler husband Hulk Hogan, a newspaper reported Friday.

Hulk Hogan, whose real name is Terry Bollea, told the St. Petersburg Times that he had no idea his wife had filed for divorce. He was informed by a reporter that Pinellas County court records showed that the paperwork was submitted Tuesday.

Thank you for the great information, he told the reporter.

Family spokesman Adam Handelsman referred calls to another spokesman, who did not immediately respond Friday night.

My wife has been in California for about three weeks. … Holy smokes, Bollea later told the newspaper. Wow, you just knocked the bottom out of me.

The couple star in the VH1 reality TV series Hogan Knows Best, with their two children. Recent episodes show the normally close couple attending marital counseling, but they eventually reconcile.
That’s an absolute worse case scenario to learn that your wife has filed for divorce but to find out via the media and not from your wife?
( o _ 0 ) Dude I’d be pissed!
For the people who are saying who cares just imagine if the shoe were on the other foot? ( o _ 0 ) Would you be so quick to say Oh who cares? I think not. I think you’d be distraught or maybe even happy depending upon how much you loved your spouse.

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Ms. Budweiser asked:


Can someone please tell me what the requirements are to rent an apartment are in florida? And will they know if I have a broken lease or eviction in another state if I dont tell them? I just dont want to have to settle into a dangerous neighborhood because I have an eviction on my record from my divorce.